Thursday, April 27, 2017

Pros and Cons of Working from Home

Today marks three years since I moved from Denver to Durango and starting working from home. I kept the job that I had in Denver when we moved and have been working remotely ever since with occasional trips back to the main office.

My home office

In our old house my desk was in a corner of the living room so it's been really nice the last six months since we moved into our new house to have a dedicated office.

Here are some of my thoughts on the pros and cons of working from home...

The commute

This is a huge benefit to me. I love not spending time in traffic. Of course it depends how close you live to work. For three years in Denver I had a 45-60 minute commute, which was pretty awful, and then for the last two years I lived 5 minutes away from the office, which was pretty nice, but nothing beats zero minutes.


The only downside that I can think of is that I used to listen to NPR on the way to/from work and I am much less informed these days on local, national, and international news.


The schedule

I have a very flexible schedule but it is even more so while working from home. It's so easy, almost too easy at times, to take a quick break to fold the laundry or put dinner in the Crock-Pot, so I have to be really careful not to let home chores overwhelm my work responsibilities during work hours.


And vice versa. The downside, both to the flexible schedule and to working from home, is that it can be hard to draw the line between work and home. During busy season, my computer was always on, and I was always popping back into my office to check and respond to email.

The dress code

Pro: I can work in pajamas!
Con: I can work in pajamas.

I do love my comfy clothes, but I have to say that even when I'm not leaving the house, I feel so much better if I take the time to get ready for the day. Not that I'm wearing business casual around the house but I don't want to be embarrassed if I have to answer the door or run an errand. It helps me feel more professional too. 


Another thing to note is that if you're wearing yoga pants 24/7 you might not realize right away about those couple pounds you gained over the holidays...


Busy season uniform

The community

As an introvert I feel that I am well suited to work from home, but I do miss the camaraderie of the office from time to time. I met almost all my good friends in Denver through work. It has been much harder to make friends and get connected in the Durango community without the office environment. I do also miss going out for (free!) lunches and coffee dates. Sometimes I think it's healthier to work from home without the various free donuts, snacks, lunches, and drinks, but on the other hand, at home, the kitchen is always right there.


That's all! Do you, or have you ever, worked from home? If so - What do you think the greatest perks and drawbacks are?

Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Favorite Children's Books

Hello! Today I'm linking up with Lauren and Bre for Add It To My List. This time I thought I'd share some of my favorite children's books.

I have always loved children's books. During my sophomore year of college my roommate Ali and I would check out picture books from the Education section of the library and read them before bed. I remember being particularly enamored with Amos and Boris by William Steig.

I've always been in the habit of wandering through the kids section at bookstores and every once in a while before I had kids I'd pick up a book with "someday" in mind. I bought Jane Eyre and Pride & Prejudice from the BabyLit collection in Savannah in 2012.

Of course nowadays that I'm reading bedtime stories and nap time stories and breakfast time stories and any time stories, I am always on the lookout for new and fun stories because even the cutest books get tiresome at some point. We do go to the library every week but sometimes it's hit or miss, so if you have kids, or if you just love children's books, please give me suggestions!

Currently the #1 spot is held by Mother Bruce by Ryan T. Higgins. It's about a grumpy bear who begrudgingly takes in four baby geese. Swede has this book memorized and it's so cute to hear her say phrases like "mistaken identity" and "explained migration."


Some other favorites are:

Bedtime for Monsters by Ed Vere
The Night Gardener by The Fan Brothers
The Bear and the Piano by David Litchfield
Snappsy the Alligator by Julie Falatko and Tim Miller


The Adventures of Beekle: The Unimaginary Friend by Dan Santat
Such a Little Mouse by Alice Schertle and Stephanie Yue
The Wonderful Habit of Rabbits by Douglas Florian and Sonia Sanchez
Dream Animals by Emily Winfield Martin


I picked up this set of ten fairy tales from Scholastic a while ago and was surprised by how much Swede loves them. I guess they are classics for a reason!


Abel is just now starting to be interested in books so I'm looking forward to getting out some of my favorite board books to share with him, such as the Penguin and Pinecone series by Salina Yoon, the "Baby" series by Leslie Patricelli, anything by Sandra Boynton, and anything Eric Carle.


That's all!

Monday, April 17, 2017

Easter Weekend 2017

Greetings! We had a really nice Easter weekend - I hope that you did too!

The weekend started out with a five mile run on Saturday morning - OK, so this was not a highlight was the weekend, because it was miserable! I have seriously lost my running mojo these past couple weeks which is really discouraging. But that's not what I'm here to chat about today, so... 

Later in the morning the kids and I headed over to my parents house for an Easter egg hunt. It was a beautiful day and my mom's daffodil field bloomed perfectly in time for the holiday! Swede was very serious and focused on finding all the eggs. A girl on a mission! It took Abel a while to catch on but I think he enjoyed it too.


He's a good egg.


Amicable sibling moment - It DOES happen!


There was chocolate...

In the afternoon both kids took great naps and then Swede and I dyed eggs which was fun, and less messy than I anticipated - Bonus! I like the turquoise one the best.


In the evening our babysitter (who has been out of town for several weeks) came over so that Jonathan and I could celebrate 4/15 at one of our favorite restaurants - Cyprus Cafe. The deadline isn't until 4/18 this year but I finished up most of my work on Friday - Hooray! This lemon cocktail was delicious, and they have an intensely wonderful chocolate pot d'creme dessert that I can't resist.


On Sunday we went to the early church service and then headed over to Jonathan's parents' house. It was also my mother-in-law's birthday so they hosted brunch for all the aunts/uncles/cousins. There was ham, spinach salad, fruit salad, potato salad, deviled eggs (made by Jonathan and they were delicious) and a green-chili egg bake.


Plus... Cupcakes! There was a high level of chocolate consumption this weekend.


The kids were a little overstimulated from all the excitement and presents and chocolate so we had a low-key afternoon at home, leftovers for dinner, and an early bedtime for everyone.

That's all!

Friday, April 14, 2017

Race Recap: Run the Rim 10K

Welcome to my first race recap of 2017! This one wasn't on the original 2017 Race Calendar that I set up in January but I just couldn't wait until May to do my first race since last August. The main reason I wanted to do an earlier race was to gauge where I'm at with my training so far and to get a baseline going forward into the summer. But there was a secondary benefit which I didn't plan on that it reminded me of everything that I need to do going forward to have a successful race!

Honestly - I hesitate to call this a race because it was the smallest, low-budget, no-frills race you can possibly imagine. I think I'm being generous when I say there were 50 people. No chip timing. No mile markers. No aid stations. But it's to support scholarships for the Fort Lewis College Exercise Science Department so at least you can be sure 99% of your entry fee is going to the cause!


The race started at the clock tower on campus which is on a mesa above Durango and consisted of many loops around campus including along Rim Drive which overlooks town. There was a 5K which was a small loop and a big loop, and for the 10K you did both loops over again. I passed my car four separate times and every time I thought that maybe I should just hop in and go home! Mostly because that part of the course was really windy. Running into the wind is high on my list of least favorite things.


My splits were - 8:44, 8:31, 8:10, 9:00, 8:42, 8:41, and 2:46 for the last .3 (per Garmin) for a total time of 54:34 and an average pace of 8:40. I was hoping for closer to 8:30 but there were numerous things I could have done better leading up to and during the race, such as: a) going to bed at a reasonable time the night before - not at 11 p.m.! b) eating a proper dinner the night before - not Chinese food at 3 p.m.! c) bringing some water/fuel for during the race - even though it was *just* a 10K a GU before the race and at mile 3 would have been nice. That is was so windy was also not very helpful.

That's all! I hope you have a nice Easter weekend.

Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Reading Roundup - March 2017

Book Day! Here's what I read in March:


1) A Piece of the World by Christina Baker Kline. Based on real life, this book is the story of Christina Olsen's life on a remote farm in Maine in the early 20th century. She has a degenerative nerve condition which gradually cripples her. In her 40's she becomes friends with the painter Andrew Wyeth and inspires his most famous work "Christina's World." I really liked Christina Baker Kline's first book, Orphan Train, but for some reason I couldn't get into this one.


2) Swimming Lessons by Claire Fuller. On the other hand, I did not like Claire Fuller's first book, Our Endless Numbered Days, but I did mostly enjoy this one although it does have the sad downward trajectory of a a relationship falling apart. A dozen years ago, before she disappeared, Ingrid Coleman wrote a series of letters to her husband Gil, telling the story of their life together, and hid them in books around their house. The book alternates back and forth between the letters and the modern day as Gil and Ingrid's two grown daughters come home to care for their ailing father.


3) My Not-So-Perfect Life by Sophie Kinsella. I never got into the Shopaholic series but I have enjoyed all Sophie Kinsella's other books and this one is no exception. It's about Katie Brenner, a small-town girl who is struggling to make it at an advertising agency in London, but you wouldn't know that by looking at her Instagram! While she projects the "perfect" image to the world she is obsessed by her boss, Demeter, who also appears to be perfect. But appearances (and Instagram) can be deceiving...


4) All Our Wrong Todays by Elan Mastai. This book is different. Do you ever feel like you're reading the same book over and over? This is not that. It's set in the 2016 that people in the '50s thought we'd have - Very Jetsons. But then the main character, Tom Barren, goes back in time and alters the trajectory of time to end up in the 2016 of today. It started out really good and interesting and funny, but the last third is really confusing with many alternative realities overlapping. I've continued to think about it since I finished the book but still can't make sense of how it all worked out!

Swede's book of the month: The Wonderful Habits of Rabbits by Douglas Florian, illustrated by Sonia Sanchez.


Also! Following in the footsteps of Steph and Erin and Audrey (and I know there are others) - Here are some books I'm giving away free to a good home! Let me know if you're interested in the comments and/or email me your address at noodletotherescue(at)gmail(dot)com and I'll send them to you. The only caveat is that you continue to share the love by passing them along when you are done.


- Mademoiselle Chanel by C.W. Gortner
- My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry by Fredrik Backman
- More than Happy: The Wisdom of Amish Parenting by Serena Miller and Paul Stutzman
- Finding Fraser by K.C. Dyer [If you like the Outlander series this is a fun read.]

That's all!

Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Me x 3

Hey Friends! It's been a while since I've done a random-things-about-me post so I'm borrowing this format from Steph. And because I don't have any photos to go along with this I've added in some from last weekend.

Here we go!


Three things I'd never give up: Coffee. Cheese. Cookies.

Three favorite vegetables: Kale. Butternut Squash. Beets. [Anyone want to guess what Jonathan's three least favorite vegetables are?]

Three shows I watched faithfully from beginning to end: Friends. Gilmore Girls. Firefly.

Three places I want to visit in the U.S.: Chicago. The Grand Canyon. Colonial Williamsburg.

Three places I want to visit outside the U.S.: To hike the Tour de Mont Blanc. A cruise in the Baltic. All-inclusive super-swanky Caribbean beach resort.


Three things I always have with me: Chap-Stick. A book. My phone. [Although I'm trying to leave the phone behind more often these days.]

Three things that are always in my car: Chap-Stick. Baby wipes. Quarters.

Three most recent phone calls were to/from: Other than my mom the only calls I've received in months are from clients or telemarketers, specifically this one recorded message that's offering to help with my student loans. [I don't have student loans.]

Three books I read and loved in college: Atlas Shrugged. 100 Years of Solitude. Gone with the Wind.

Three most used makeup products: Mascera. Eye Shadow. Lip Gloss. [Date night only. I don't wear make-up most of the time.]


Three things that make me laugh: My kids being silly and sweet. Puns. Captain Holt on Brooklyn 99.

Three things that make me cry: Bad things happening to children/animals. When I feel like a bad mom because I've snapped at the kids for no good reason except that I'm tired and stressed. The scene in pretty much any movie when the baby is born. [Obviously the last one is tears of happiness.]

Three things I frequently forget: My phone charger when going out of town. To reply to texts promptly, which drives me crazy because I can't believe I've become one of *those* people who drive me crazy by not responding to texts promptly. To buy stamps.

Three errands I love to run: I can't think of any errands I like to run. I do like having new books from the library but I will try to convince someone else to pick them up for me whenever possible.


Three famous people I'd like to meet: Ann Patchett. Shalane Flanagan. Emily Blunt.

Three famous people I'd like to avoid: Donald Trump. And pretty much any other member of the Republican party currently in power. Which I know is more than three but how can you narrow it down?

Three things I'd recommend: I am obsessed with these Chai Snickerdoodle cookies. I really like this Bubba Tumbler because it's 32 ounces so - I know this makes me sounds lazy, but so be it - I'm not always popping into the kitchen to refill my water glass, but the less I'm in the kitchen means the less opportunities I have to pick up a snack I probably don't need. And Boden is my go-to for fun cute bright clothes for me and the kids, and they have the best cashmere.

Three things I always look forward to: Birthdays. Holidays. Vacations.

Three things I always dread: Running errands. Listening to voice mail. Going to the dentist.


That's all! Have a nice day. :-)

Friday, March 31, 2017

2017: March Check-in

I was very tempted to skip this post for March. When I decided to check in monthly on my 2016 goals I imagined it would be a steady progression in a generally successful direction. This month... Not so much! It's not unexpected as March is always a busy and difficult month at work, but it's always disappointing when you are off the mark.

But first! Because everyone liked seeing GB so much on Tuesday... She deeply loves her Cozy Cave and spends most of the day snoozing there in my office while I work.


Here's what happened this month - 

Exercise

The Goal: My official goal for 2017 is to PR the half marathon, but aside from that I like to exercise most days to be healthy and feel like my best self. I try to run 3x/week and do strength, HIIT, or yoga 3x/week.


The Reality: I am pretty dedicated to running so I did well there - 70 miles in March! I didn't miss a single scheduled run and pushed my long run up to 10 miles. I've been semi-consistent with non-running workouts 2x/week (8 total in March) although I did skip the entire week after Daylight Savings because I could not get out of bed early enough. 


Mood


The Goal: My goal is to be more mindful, to be more present, to single-task, and to spend less time on my phone. The word of the year is REST.

The Reality: Rest? Ha. Yeah... No. This is definitely the area that has suffered the most. It's amazing how quickly things go downhill when I'm not getting enough sleep. 
There have been many times the past month when I've found myself being impatient and snappy with the kids and immediately afterwards I think: "This is not who I am! This is not the mom I want to be." I do try to be really present when I'm with them but it's hard to stop my mind from wandering to all the work I need to do later. 

Earlier in the month I did slip back into bad habits of being on my phone too much but the past week I've gotten it back under control. The biggest change is that I think I'm quitting Instagram, but more about that later. A recent snapshot from Moment:


The extra time on Sunday was due to taking too many photos of Abe in his overalls.


Books

The Goal: I'm trying to read one non-fiction book per month this year.

The Reality: Nope. I've read a couple chapters of The Danish Way of Parenting but with limited reading time it's not my go-to. I'll catch up next month!

Budget

The Goal: My goals here are a) Don't buy any clothes for myself until May, and b) Be more careful with random discretionary spending.

The Reality: I was not very successful in this category either. I bought pretty much everything the kids will need for the spring and summer: Clothes from Carters and Primary. Sandals from See Kai Run. The cutest bathing suits ever from Boden. All those things did need to be purchased but there was definitely an element of impulse buying and retail therapy going on. I'd like to get away from the "I had a bad day... What should I buy?" mentality.


I also failed (4.5/6 months isn't so bad, is it?) at not buying any clothes for myself. I picked up a pair of Metro Joggers from Athleta and just yesterday bought a cute outfit from Title Nine. I also bought a Bubba Tumbler (I love it! Thanks Chelsea!) and some new movies for Swede - Her current favorite is Anastasia although we have to skip past any scene with Rasputin because he's too scary. 

So - Overall... It was not the best month for any of these categories except for running, but I'm not going to beat myself up about it. This is my first complete busy season as a manger with two kids so... It's a work in progress. You do the best you can. 

That's all! How did March go for you?